A short while ago I posted The Christian Sex Rules because I thought it was important to have a quick summary of how to keep your marriage and your relationship fresh. But many times following even the best gudelines can yield unfavorable results. Because we are human, and sometimes our emotions override the things we know we should do. For instance, we all know that is is somewhat rude to interrupt your spouse when he/she is in the middle of explaining a point of why they feel strongly about a certain issue…but I’m sorry, I find that hard sometimes

Carolyn speaks a lot of times with great emotion about a variety of things that I feel differently about, even though for the most part, we are always laughing…when we are talking about a strong issue, it is often hard to keep from wedging my point in the middle of her statement. This kind of scenario happens the same way when it comes to getting better sex. It sounds nice and easy to follow the Rules For Christian Sex but sometimes it’s hard — and when it’s hard to follow those rules, maybe you should just concentrate on the last one. The last of the 7 Christian Sex Rules is to “always care outside.” Here is a quote from the 7 Christian Sex Rules article at Ezinearticles.

Always care outside The factor that we drive home the most and always stress is that sex does not start in the bedroom; it never has and never will - and the sooner you can grasp this concept is the sooner you ensure you will always enjoy great sex. You see, thinking about each other and being happy with each other outside of the bedroom is the key to having outrageously exciting sex. Being able to hold hands, kiss, laugh, share ideas, and secrets is what fuels the fire….sex is just the way to put it out.

What Being Intimate Really Means

Being intimate means giving time to other things in your marriage that matters, it means wrapping yourself in love, in romance, in feelings, in emotions, in happy, and even in sorrow - and sharing them with the love of your life. If you are having trouble having sex, then maybe it’s time to be intimate and cuddle and talk. Talk about how much you love being married and how it has changed your life for the better, and this can go a long ways to make things a lot better. I want to give you a good imagery of what I am thinking of at the moment.

Imagine your sex life as being in a vault, in a secured and closed valut. It is secured, it has security, it has 10 armed bodyguards outside all time. The only way to get past the security, is to keep your relationship well lubricated by showing your lover that you are emotionaly connected and caring, without seeking sexual interests. This is another thing that seems easy, but it’s no where near easy because our lives are just so scattered now days.

God wants you to enjoy your sex life in a way that you never dreamed was possible… and the only way to do that is to have a relationship that you are constantly nurturing at which it will be substantially easier to follow the entire Rules For Better Christian Sex

In the same spirit of The Christian Sex Test, which causes individuals (namely Christians) to take a stronger and longer look at our own biases and how they conflict with our stated purpose (to be Christ-like); I wanted to talk a bit about the latest news.

After almost 1 year of reworking the Marriage Act to allow same-sex unions, The Parliament of South Africa overwhelmingly approved the recognition of gay marriages with a vote of 230 to 41 — making it the 5th country in the world, the 1st African country and the 1st republic to legalize same-sex marriages. The Civil Unions Bill, as it is called, opens up a whole new can of worms for this topic to continue spinning around Christian communities. — Continue Reading »

Christian Sex Test is aimed at Radical Christians who can sometimes be insensitive and condescending towards Christians who make mistakes and of course in more extreme cases, these are Christians who commit gay hate crimes. You can take the test by clicking here: Sex Test for Christians. Please leave your feedback on the http://www.christiansex101.com/hellknow portion of the blog. I’m excited. If you are not happy with this project or offended, I am sorry to offend you - but this is designed for people who need it; outside of the traditional “Christian” channel but I hope you will join me in this plight. Before we can talk about sex with our marriage, we have to deal with our internal issues and phobias.

Anytime you can reduce stress for your spouse you increase your changes for having a successful night of passion. Especially if your stress works a full time job, it is almost impossible for a person to walk outside in broad day light without getting stressed. So here is a way to cure your need for relaxation and mood music. No requirements or purchases necessary, just download and press play. You can download for FREE by — Continue Reading »