Any day can be no more significant than the last, but the beauty of night lies in the affirmation that tomorrow grants an opportunity for a fresh start. Tomorrow is marvelous because of the large amount of time we have to start, continue, or finish something we couldn’t today.

In Relationships that are hard pressed to rejuvenate for their survival, the couple knows that the beginnings and endings matter far more than we care to admit. Going to bed the same way every night is boring and one night you’ll catch it and ask for it to end a different way. There are plenty of thousand different ways to end the stale-night-syndrome.

I kind of talked about some ways to prime the juice in your marriage with theChristian Marriage Sex Laws, but the value of goodnight requires our attention.

I recommend reading your spouse a love poem one night, perhaps tonight. A good poem is well written, it should flow from the tip of your tongue easily - and it always has a good meaning to it; it should communicate your deepest appreciation for your spouse in vivid and romantic ways.

I recently wrote a post about Christian Anal Sex and in that post I mentioned that being selfish is inevitable if you want to have a good sex life. I am not saying that you need to be selfish to an uncompromising degree…but pretty much ever request we make is done for selfish motives. The very reason that we are in a marriage is selfish. The very reason that we are married to one person is because we are selfish. THe very reason why we get jealous is because we are selfish. — Continue Reading »

Christian Sex 101 is the haven for learning more about Christian sexuality and strenghtening your Christian marriage with powerful sexual tips, tricks, and special techniques you can use to gain more satisfaction from your sex life. Everything we discuss here is not related to sex and it shouldn’t be - because the way we see it, sex is only part of the bigger picture. The bigger picture is that you are happy and enjoying a satisfactory marriage with the love of your life. You know how you first met your lover, and you gazed in each others eyes? How you were so excited waiting to hear the phone ring and how it sent chills down your spine when you were together? Or what about the first time you went out to dinner and saw the sparkle in the eye.
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I recently explained a brief overview of Anal Sex and how there are different opinions scattered throughout the Christian Community of whether it is right or wrong. One thing I did not mention was that, as the years go on, the popularity of the subject matter and the act of anal sex, will come to a daring rise due to the surge of homosexuality being popularized and legalized throughout the Country.

The reason why Christian Anal Sex is such a touchy issue for many people is because of it’s association to homosexuality. It’s been framed that way probably for the past decade and since the AIDS epedemic became a worldwide scare. I’ve said it before but the bible does not say in plain english “Anal Sex is a sin” but there are a few scriptures that people use to come to the conclusion, that God does not condone the act. — Continue Reading »

There are a many different opinions about the idea of anal sex in the Christian marriage and we do talk about this in the Christian Pleasure System, but overall - I believe that anal sex has to be dealt with on a case by case basis. Many Christians throw the argument that anal sex is mostly just the idea of the Christian Husband and that it is the husband’s selfish lustful desires. They argue that anal sex is more for the husband’s enjoyment than for the wife’s.

This is an okay argument and should be understood and respected as I am not here to dictate what is right or wrong for your relationship, but we share different feelings about that situation. Technically, doctors and scientists have praised that anal sex is “okay” and it is not doing the body any harm. The argument that anal sex is wrong reinforces our view that most Christian marriages have a less than exciting sex life all around, because of their fear to try new things and experiment with options they easily dismiss as being a sin or uncomfortable. But here’s a question:
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