I recently wrote a post about Christian Anal Sex and in that post I mentioned that being selfish is inevitable if you want to have a good sex life. I am not saying that you need to be selfish to an uncompromising degree…but pretty much ever request we make is done for selfish motives. The very reason that we are in a marriage is selfish. The very reason that we are married to one person is because we are selfish. THe very reason why we get jealous is because we are selfish.

That post addressed the idea that a husband who desires anal sex, is being selfish and it is more likely that the wife would only have sex to satisfy her husband’s “selfish” desires. But I tend to think that in a Christian marriage or a secular marriage, any Christian’s Sexual Desire is largely motivated by some percentage of selfishness. It is impossible to ask questions or live life without being selfish. I hope that you understand what I mean here because I think it is important.

Imagine what sex would be like if you NEVER told your spouse what could be better, or what you would like to be better, or what you are most happy with, or what your fantasies are… ?

How can you involve a degree of selfishness in your Christian marriage to improve your Christian Sex Relationship?

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