http://www.christiansex101.com/archives/010031.shtml Christian Sex and Relationship Advice for Christians Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:19:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 http://www.christiansex101.com/archives/010031.shtml#comment-2517 Thu, 13 Sep 2007 05:14:39 +0000 http://www.christiansex101.com/archives/010031.shtml#comment-2517 my husband and i have tried anal sex and I found it enjoyable, but struggling with the "i don't want to burn in hell" question. we decided to pray about what was right for us since scripture is not clear in regards to a man and woman in marriage (other than the marriage bed is undefiled). I found your answers the most biblically balanced. However, in my search, I have found sites that condemn everything and it almost seems as though sex with your mate is supposed to be something you endure because you eventually need it in order to not be tempted. To me, being with your mate to "keep from falling into temptation" can turn into using each other as an instrument and that is a sin. Paul said that the relationship between Jesus and the church is like the marriage between a man and a woman. It was considered a great mystery. I would hope that the Lord would want communion with us (and I mean that in the purest sense of the word) because of His great affection for us and not because it is something that must be endured. Thanks for being willing to tackled intimacy issues and keeping things in scripture. my husband and i have tried anal sex and I found it enjoyable, but struggling with the “i don’t want to burn in hell” question. we decided to pray about what was right for us since scripture is not clear in regards to a man and woman in marriage (other than the marriage bed is undefiled). I found your answers the most biblically balanced. However, in my search, I have found sites that condemn everything and it almost seems as though sex with your mate is supposed to be something you endure because you eventually need it in order to not be tempted. To me, being with your mate to “keep from falling into temptation” can turn into using each other as an instrument and that is a sin. Paul said that the relationship between Jesus and the church is like the marriage between a man and a woman. It was considered a great mystery. I would hope that the Lord would want communion with us (and I mean that in the purest sense of the word) because of His great affection for us and not because it is something that must be endured. Thanks for being willing to tackled intimacy issues and keeping things in scripture.

]]> http://www.christiansex101.com/archives/010031.shtml#comment-20 Sat, 09 Dec 2006 16:38:47 +0000 http://www.christiansex101.com/archives/010031.shtml#comment-20 [...] What does the bible say about sex… and what are the commandments? What’s allowed and not allowed? What about anal sex? The goal of Christian Sex 101 is to encourage you to use many different techniques emotionally, physically, and spiritually that will increase your sexual pleasure and intimacy within your Christian marriage. [...] […] What does the bible say about sex… and what are the commandments? What’s allowed and not allowed? What about anal sex? The goal of Christian Sex 101 is to encourage you to use many different techniques emotionally, physically, and spiritually that will increase your sexual pleasure and intimacy within your Christian marriage. […]

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