God’s Rules For Having Sex In Christian Marriage
A short while ago I posted The Christian Sex Rules because I thought it was important to have a quick summary of how to keep your marriage and your relationship fresh. But many times following even the best gudelines can yield unfavorable results. Because we are human, and sometimes our emotions override the things we know we should do. For instance, we all know that is is somewhat rude to interrupt your spouse when he/she is in the middle of explaining a point of why they feel strongly about a certain issue…but I’m sorry, I find that hard sometimes 
Carolyn speaks a lot of times with great emotion about a variety of things that I feel differently about, even though for the most part, we are always laughing…when we are talking about a strong issue, it is often hard to keep from wedging my point in the middle of her statement. This kind of scenario happens the same way when it comes to getting better sex. It sounds nice and easy to follow the Rules For Christian Sex but sometimes it’s hard — and when it’s hard to follow those rules, maybe you should just concentrate on the last one. The last of the 7 Christian Sex Rules is to “always care outside.” Here is a quote from the 7 Christian Sex Rules article at Ezinearticles.
Always care outside The factor that we drive home the most and always stress is that sex does not start in the bedroom; it never has and never will - and the sooner you can grasp this concept is the sooner you ensure you will always enjoy great sex. You see, thinking about each other and being happy with each other outside of the bedroom is the key to having outrageously exciting sex. Being able to hold hands, kiss, laugh, share ideas, and secrets is what fuels the fire….sex is just the way to put it out.
What Being Intimate Really Means
Being intimate means giving time to other things in your marriage that matters, it means wrapping yourself in love, in romance, in feelings, in emotions, in happy, and even in sorrow - and sharing them with the love of your life. If you are having trouble having sex, then maybe it’s time to be intimate and cuddle and talk. Talk about how much you love being married and how it has changed your life for the better, and this can go a long ways to make things a lot better. I want to give you a good imagery of what I am thinking of at the moment.
Imagine your sex life as being in a vault, in a secured and closed valut. It is secured, it has security, it has 10 armed bodyguards outside all time. The only way to get past the security, is to keep your relationship well lubricated by showing your lover that you are emotionaly connected and caring, without seeking sexual interests. This is another thing that seems easy, but it’s no where near easy because our lives are just so scattered now days.
God wants you to enjoy your sex life in a way that you never dreamed was possible… and the only way to do that is to have a relationship that you are constantly nurturing at which it will be substantially easier to follow the entire Rules For Better Christian Sex
November 21st, 2006 at 4:58 pm
[…] I recently explained a brief overview of Anal Sex and how there are different opinions scattered throughout the Christian Community. One thing I did not mention was that, as the years go on, the popularity of the subject matter and the act of anal sex, will come to a daring rise due to the surge of homosexuality being popularized and legalized throughout the Country. […]
November 21st, 2006 at 5:49 pm
[…] That post addressed the idea that a husband who desires anal sex, is being selfish and it is more likely that the wife would only have sex to satisfy her husband’s “selfish” desires. But I tend to think that in a Christian marriage or a secular marriage, any Christian’s Sexual Desire is largely motivated by some percentage of selfishness. It is impossible to ask questions or live life without being selfish. I hope that you understand what I mean here because I think it is important. […]