We’ve talked about Christian Masturbation, unhappiness, and whether or not you could really enjoy sex as a Christian. But much of this study deals with re-learning how to be in love and fall in love with the person of your dreams. In foreplay, the role of communication is to further stimulate your spouse to a point of high arousal. Compliments are important to both give and receive because it satisfies one of our basic human needs. While you are setting the mood, the conversation has to lead to some type of purpose. Here are a few of things you want to avoid while setting the mood with foreplay:
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Many Christians want to know if there is a secret about masturbation, or if masturbation is a sin. What the bible says about sex has been a mystery for a long time. But to the question of is Christian Masturbation a sin, there is an answer, an answer that not many Pastors or leaders have taken the time to discover or reveal to their flock.

Masturbation, Oral Sex, and Anal Sex are probably the three things that most Christians really force themselves to dismiss all together. These 3 entities are almost like the 3 little pigs that live in different houses composed of different material. In this case they each come with their own set of morals, yet the big bad wolf (the body or pleasure system) seeks to use them all equally because they all yield delight. I admit that it’s frustrating sometimes to see that so many people are missing out on the great possibilities of sexual fulfillment in these areas due to their lack of knowledge or inhibition to try. — Continue Reading »

A Lack of Understanding Equals A Boring Sex Life no matter what way you look at it. It’s very easy to come to quick judgment and invalid reasoning on a variety of controversial topics that affect Christians – like Presidential candidates, food, denominations, music choices, movie choices, income, and of course…sex. Many Christians believe that enjoying sex is prohibited by God and that it sex is only meant for procreation without any intention of providing the Christian couple with the opportunity for sexual enjoyment.

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Within a Christian marriage, let’s explain and understand some reasons why Christians get hung up on and nervous about the discussions of sex. Sex was created by God, it is, much like it’s creator…POWERFUL! But in the wrong hands or minds, it can ruin lives and everything we’ve worked so hard to earn…. homes, dishearten families, it can bring down churches, leaders, pastors, and teachers — and even our very existence.

It is because of the abuse of sexual pleasure by irresponsible individuals (and couples) that sex gets a bad reputation. Yep. That includes every day life entertainment on Radio, TV, Movies, Music Videos, Billboard Ads, Commercials, etc.
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Christian Sex In The Bible

What does the bible say about sex… and what are the commandments? What’s allowed and not allowed? What about anal sex? The goal of Christian Sex 101 is to encourage you to use many different techniques emotionally, physically, and spiritually that will increase your sexual pleasure and intimacy within your Christian marriage.

To answer the question of what the bible says about Christian Sex, we need to look in Bible scriptures. It makes absolutely no sense to apply philosophies without using the scriptures as a starting point and biblical foundation for our answers.

Remember this: God created sex for us to enjoy. He blessed it and made it GOOD! Here are a few scriptures that speak of sex. Study these scriptures if necessary in your own time. We don’t want to try and verse you in the Bible as much as we want to help you improve your sexual techniques. All the knowledge of scriptures will do you no good if you don’t TAKE ACTION!
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